Let’s Talk About It… Temptation
I started this blog because I felt God leading me to create a safe space for young women and teen girls to be able to talk about the “real stuff” without fear of condemnation or embarrassment. For a lot of my walk with God I felt completely on my own. I thought something was wrong with me because I seemed to be going through things that no one else was. However, as I matured (both in age and in faith) I began to see that what I had experienced was normal, people just didn’t talk about it.
I will be starting a new blog series called “Let’s Talk About It…” and then discuss a subject that I have struggled with or am still struggling with (you guys can feel free to share a subject you would like discussed.)
First in the series is temptation. If you have read my post on Profiling the Enemy then you know that Satan is a no good, rotten scoundrel and one of his favorite things to do is trip up Christians by tempting them to do something that isn’t Christ-like. Satan will use anything and everything to tempt a child of God, however, you should know that the devil isn’t stupid; no, he’s quite smart. Satan knows you and your weaknesses; his attacks are personal and are meant to hit you where it hurts.
Everyone is tempted by different things in different ways (i.e. what tempts you may not be able to tempt me.) I have always struggled with lust and Satan constantly tries to exploit this. However, if he were to try and tempt a greedy person with lustful thoughts it wouldn’t work as well as tempting them with money.
I used to be embarrassed to admit that I was tempted because no one else seemed to be going through it but then I discovered even Jesus was tempted. Hebrews 4:14-16 (Amplified) says, “Inasmuch then as we have a great High Priest Who has [already] ascended and passed through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession [of faith in Him]. For we do not have a High Priest Who is unable to understand and sympathize and have a shared feeling with our weaknesses and infirmities and liability to the assaults of temptation, but One Who has been tempted on every respect as we are, yet without sinning. Let us then fearlessly and confidently and boldly draw near to the throne of grace (the throne of God’s unmerited favor to us sinners), that we may receive mercy [for our failures] and find grace to help in good time for every need [appropriate help and well-timed help, coming just when we need it].”
Jesus is the only human in history not to give into sin and temptation which tells me that everyone else has been tempted and has sinned. You are not alone and there is absolutely nothing wrong with you (I wish I had realized this when I was younger!)
We’ve established that being tempted is normal. Now let’s talk about what you can do to fight back against Satan’s attack. Well, verse 16 from above is a good starting point. I know the Amplified version of the Bible can be a lot to swallow, but I chose it specifically for this post because of how it included the original meaning of the word “grace” (“God’s unmerited favor to us sinners.”) The above verse says that we must “approach the throne of God’s unmerited favor to us sinners” and seek His mercy and unmerited favor.
If there is one thing I have learned about temptation (other than that it is something that everyone faces) it’s that I cannot resist it on my own. I need God’s help. James 4:7 (ESV) says, “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” I didn’t find triumph over temptation until I admitted that I need God’s help and then gave Him complete control over all areas of my life. In other words, the more you try to fight on your own, the more you’re going to fail; let God do the fighting for you! (P.S. I love reciting James 4:7 in times of weakness!)
Ephesians 6:13-17 (ESV) says, “Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God.” God has literally given us everything we need- an entire suit of armor- to withstand Satan’s attacks! We have the built of truth to stand against Satan’s lies, the breast plate of righteousness to protect our heart from deception, the gospel of peace so we need not fear where we step, the shield of faith to defend against everything Satan throws our way, and the helmet of salvation to protect our minds which have been transformed into a new creation (1 Corinthians 5:17.)
As I close, I encourage you to let go of any guilt or embarrassment you may harbor over being tempted (I know I had a lot.) Instead of worrying, start focusing on dressing yourself in the full armor of God!
God, I pray for each and every person who reads this. Touch their hearts Lord; let them know that they are not alone in this struggle and that You too have once been where they are. I pray that You will give them the strength to submit their lives to You, to let You start fighting for them. Let them be dressed in the armor you have given them!
In Jesus’ holy name,
Thank you guys so much for reading! Is there anything you would like me to discuss in my next “Let’s Talk About…” post?